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Elusive Innocence: Survival Guide for the Falsely Accused (Paperback) by Dean Tong (Author)

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"The book is a life jacket for the falsely accused parent and inexperienced attorney. Dean Tong is an internationally known forensic consultant on related child abuse, domestic violence and child custody cases."

"At the center of this important (and frankly, long overdue) book about parents falsely accused of sexually abusing their children is a pernicious phenomenon called the "Sexual Allegations In Divorce" (SAID) syndrome. This syndrome is symptomatic of a legal and child protective services system gone horribly wrong, so that not only aren't the children being protected from abuse, they end up being abused by the system itself." - Dennis Littrell

"It is estimated that allegations of domestic violence, abuse, or sexual abuse are presently made in one-third of all divorces, primarily to gain financial, material, or custodial advantages. Studies consistently show that only a small percentage of these criminal charges are justified. Thus, Dean Tong's book "Survival Guide for the Falsely Accused" is an essential reference for the tens of thousands of men trapped in the quicksand of false allegations every year. The book should also be read by every legislator, attorney, judge, mental health professional, victim's advocate, social worker, and child protective service worker dealing with these issues." - Charles Corry

"Mr. Tong's writing is superb, the organization of the book, intermixing personal stories with legal and social issues, provides for a wonderful reading, and the appendices offer a wealth of resources of information for those needing assistance. I recommend this book most highly for everyone interested (and everyone should be interested) in how our society's laws have developed to protect children, and how these laws are being used to perpetrate what Mr. Tong refers to as "the reverse cycle of child abuse." This book is simply a must-read for all who want to know what is happening in our society regarding the abuse of children. Survival Guide for the Falsely Accused is a singular and comprehensive resource that will make you think, and perhaps act, so that our society will more equitably address this important topic, protecting both children and those who stand accused." - Dr. Joseph J. Plaud

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False Accusations of Sexual Abuse

Read John's Story
"How can this 'alleged victim' sleep after demolishing a man's life? I am a shell of a man, forever scarred by this."
my lawyer, jail, the police, expenses, nightmares, lost faith

Read Steve's Story
"I have become distant with my family. I am scared will be imprisoned. Accusations can destroy people."
sick girl, asked to leave, police, confused, scared, disbelief

Read Tanya's Story
"A 'social worker' accused Mark of groping our daughter when we let the girl sit on her father's knee."
social services, prison, indecent assault

Read Jeremy's Story
"The jury found him unanimously not guilty. Record of this fiasco will continue to appear on background checks."
party, alcohol, arrested, DNA, hung jury, false claims

Read Sarah's Story
"Jon is still in prison. He has served nine years. He has two more. Jane doesn't know Jon is incarcerated."
fifteen years old, angry father, come forward, imprisoned

Read Karen's Story
"He was accused of molesting his stepdaughter. Why? She is mad at him for not buying her a car that he promised."
divorce, stepdaughter, detention center, penal code

Read Safi's Story
"Everyday, I consider suicide. Why are men guilty of rape unless they prove their innocence?"
suicide, marriage, pakistan, police brutality

Read Eddie's Story
"My Father was falsely accused of sexually abusing his 30 y/o Granddaughter when she was a child."
paranoia, rumors, allegations, law, character assassination

Read Brad's Story
"This has been hell for me, my family. I wouldnt wish this on my worst emeny."
threesome, police, bail, wary of women, punishment

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"US Supreme Court rejects death penalty for accused child rapists"
capital punishment, murder, death penalty for sexual assault








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