Gender Male
Support for men accused of sexual assault.
John's Story: I'm a 29 year old male. I grew up in the twin cities of Minnesota.
Six years ago, I moved an hour north to a small-town country style city
to get away from an ever worsening crime-ridden city life. I can't
stress enough the weird breed of people and lifestyle I found here. If
you haven't lived in the small town your whole life, they don't like
you and don't want you here. No outsiders. Two years ago, this weird
cult-like place could not have put me in my place more!
I met a woman off the Internet who happened to live in my small
town. She came over one night and we had sex. She never said NO. She
never acted weird. She never gave any indication of feeling nervous or
unsafe. She was 18--which is young, but by no means a crime.
I dropped her and came home to go to bed. The next thing I know, my
doors are getting kicked in. I am on my way to jail. I've been out on
bail for two years now. I have a great lawyer, but I have to tell you
so many things come into play. I'm getting screwed over.
It wasn't until I got released that I was allowed to read her
"alleged victims statement." There are more holes in her story than a
block of Swiss cheese. My lawyer has never read anything more
ridiculous. He told me that if this had happened in the busy cities,
911 operators would have laughed at her when she called them. But out
here in the Styx, nothing exciting happens, so boy did they get to get
there rocks off at my expense. She even says in her statement that she
asked me to put a condom on.
Now, here is the real kicker. My father is a highly respected
sergeant of 25 years for a neighboring county, a former US Marshall,
and a sniper for the SWAT Team. For whatever reason, the police
department does not like the police department where my dad worked. The
sheriff is crooked out here; he has been proven so by the news and has
lost court cases for falsifying reports against fellow officers who run
against him for Sherriff. This is a clear attempt to slander them so he
can keep his job.
My lawyer has friends that are former prosecutors in my county. They
told him that my case was only charged because of extreme political
pressure, meaning the crooked police department here wanted to stick it
to my dad once again, at my expense.
This Monday, I'm facing judgment day. I can take a deal. They are
offering 5th-degree gross misdemeanor csc and 2 years probation. As
terms of my release on bail they've had me on probation for two years
without being convicted. This is a severe violation of my
constitutional rights.
Taking the deal will wreck my chances of a good job forever but
eliminates the possibility of prison. Alternatively, I can go to trial
and let my fate rest in the hands of a jury full of this weird breed of
people, and hope for the best. If I lose, I'll get (at the least) a
minimum of 3 years in prison for doing nothing wrong.
What would you pick? I cant begin to tell you the hell the last two
years of my life have been. I've had nightmares of getting killed by
these crooked police. It has been the first thing that pops into my
head every morning when I wake up... for two years. Not a day goes by
that I don't obsess over why this happened to me. How could this
happen? What's going to happen to me? Why did it happen? How can this
"alleged victim" sleep at night at the expense of demolishing a man's
life? I am literally a shell of a man right now.
When I was seven years old, I went on my first police ride-a-long
with my dad. And many since. I've seen first-hand the criminal element.
I've always know that it's not how I would ever choose to live my life.
I'm almost thirty years old. Previously, I had never been arrested. I
didn't just wake up one day and say, "I want to be a criminal." I've
respected the law more than most people ever will, due in part to my
dad.
This heinous thing they are trying to do me -- it's just not me.
This town. This lying, life-wrecking "alleged victim" basically
murdered me two years ago. I'm no longer the happy, care free person I
once was. They could drop the case or even find me Not Guilty, but ill
never be the same. I'm forever scarred by this. Anything you could do
to expose them would be immensely appreciated. I can put into words how
much I would appreciate your support. I've pretty much lost faith in
this country, its system, and human-kind. I just want my soul and good
name back.
Respectfully yours,
John
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